"You know, after Rachael left for college, there was a hole. I mean, you know, no more homework, no more Little League, recitals, school plays, kids crying, fights, skinned knees. And for the first time in 40 years, I looked at Virginia without all the noise, without all of the the distractions, and I couldn't remember what it felt like when I could not walk down the street without holding her hand... We'd lost something along the way" - The Bucket List.